ooops I got 24 atmo. but then again I'm a newbee to Nostr so stil figuring thing out. using Iris as desktop app.

I am partial to the nostr.land relays.

Here is a good list to compare specs: https://nostr.watch/relays/find#paid

I have 20 and add Tor on top.

Honestly, its only a little slow but completely usable.

Nah 21 is the sweet spot lol and never experienced connectivity issues even with 48 relays only lagged the app on mobile.

My recommended paid relays.

wss://nostrelay.yeghro.site

wss://nostrsatva.net

wss://nostr.1sat.org

wss://at.nostrworks.com

wss://lightningrelay.com

wss://nostr.uselessshit.co

wss://nostr.wine

I’m using 9-10 relays fren🤙🏻