yeah i am talking about this situation
two childs get into a conflict
child 1 punches child 2 in the face
child 2 responds! and in this moment you open the door as an adult and child 2 punches child 1 in the face
now you also got wo kids who sometimes lie.
so you cant just blame child 2
your view of the situation is a locked view
you have to see the picture from all angles right?