I'll try. It was somewhat involved. What would help me document it setting it up with another person and or two, since I didn't write down what I i did.

I used cln, nginx , wireguard port forwarding, and lnbits.

Before I implemented this I did figure out what I' calling zap aliases which require less work see: https://bolverker.com/zap_aliases.txt

"A zap alias maps to a zap address (lud16). For example: sats sent to the lightning address sat@bolverker.com arrive in my bolverker@strike.army lightning address and are available in my Strike account. If you have a lightning address hosted by a third party like walletofsatoshi.com, strike.army, or getalby.com and you want to have a lightning address which uses your own domain without having to do the all heavy lifting then a few simple steps will get you going with you own zap alias."