It seems to be the only large-scale alternate way to unite people besides statism
Not sure if that’s a good thing though
Discussion
LOVE is the answer to every question. Start there and everything else gets easier.
Specifically: Agape love 💜 
Oh yeah, perceived love is the glue in both statism & religion. They’re like love-extension technologies, in theory
Maybe start by loving yourself that way. This doesn’t have to include any relationship with any god nor religion.
Then you can get there with others.
For me: it doesn’t mean I like everyone. Anyone who reads my posts will realize there are many things I don’t like about humanity.
Loving humanity unconditionally is another matter.