FYI. I don't use Wallet of Satoshi. I've never used it beyond testing purposes. I recognize how incredibly easy it is to use though. I also recognize that it supports Zaps. Zaps are key here on Nostr for the complete experience. That is why we recommend WoS. For Zaps.

I personally use Zeus connected to my own node for the majority of my own needs. I have used Zeus for a very long time. It works great and I recommend on the daily that people use it if they run their own node. I also onboard people to Lightning and running their own nodes on the daily. I've personally helped dozens of people setup their own nodes. Even done remote support sessions with a lot of people.

I switched to stacker.news for my NIP-57. If I get Zapped a large amount of sats, I immediately send those sats to my node. Bitcoin was meant to be self custodied.

My 2 kids have used Muun for the past 2 years because it's easy and their recovery features are so easy that they can and have done it themselves. While it may not be a non-custodial Lightning wallet, because it's not, it's not even a true Lightning wallet, I recognize how incredibly easy it is and how wonderful the recovery process is for my kids.