nostr:npub1uhyp2jpp5gwjqh7w52tlapdwssmycmxglw2dzavy3mas3sfr83rsv6y4d5 understanding what you just explained to me took me most of my young adulthood because it wasn't obvious to me that it was a coping mechanism
nostr:npub1uhyp2jpp5gwjqh7w52tlapdwssmycmxglw2dzavy3mas3sfr83rsv6y4d5 i know they are a poor substitute and i'm working on the other kind, but it's complicated and will take some time
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nostr:npub1uhyp2jpp5gwjqh7w52tlapdwssmycmxglw2dzavy3mas3sfr83rsv6y4d5 this unmet need probably didn't do wonders for my job performance as a computer programmer either, because it's not exactly a job that satisfies your social needs, and when those are unmet, it's harder to concentrate on working