black men specifically?
talking about wanting to wait?
being in celibacy?
holy shit
the stories they told?
of how abusive women were about it?!
blew me the fuckkkkkk awayyyyyyy
straight up if you cant respect someone's sexual choices you dont love them
if someone's celibacy or virginity makes you insecure???
that your allure can't break them from their promise or vibe or detox with their own body???
you arent looking for a partner
you are hunting
truly predator status
no one should ever ever be pressuring ~Anyone~ for intimacy they arent ready for or dont want to have or maybe never want to have