Cheated on. Almost twice,by different people, the first time it was distance, should’ve broken up long before that happened.
I’m not sure if the second time really counts because we were on a “break”. But the act ended it, and it did hurt.
On both the accounts the relationship had gone to shit before the cheating happened, I do still judge the cheaters but have found faults with myself that I’m working on, on how to make sure the relationship doesn’t go south in the first place.
Also have been accused of cheating in a casual relationship where exclusivity was not on the table and I had communicated it clearly.