why are men my age so against having families & kids. it’s sad. nostr:note156tva0wq9k6nvzuvekepj3mqyzfztpjlgtys0plwj0gh2cdwz5zspcs45y
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Men want children and families. They are just broke and waiting til they can afford to partner up.
You girls are expensive 😂
i take care of my own.
Men like to take care of the household in general. It’s our primal optimal state.
I don’t make the rules.
It's multifactorial. There are plenteous government and establishment media psyops interested in taking way focus on future, freedom, and progeny. You are being deluded into believing that children are thieves of joy, when in fact the opposite is true. Our ancestors knew better.
Then there's the fact that reproduction and family-raising right require tremendous moral compass, power, and self-controlled committed action. This is far more available and thus more common among religious conservatives. Psy-op'd people are more inclined to think instant gratification and absence of pain is the way to happiness. That's animal-like.
For the modern person it's safer in many ways to decline to take a risk unless an individual and their monogomous partner (husband/wife) can be trusted to keep their word and faithfulness through thick and thin - a trait that's in high demand and low availability today. Who can find a noble woman/man worthy of this commitment and investment, to carry and bear their children?
#psychology
If I had the money I would go buy a ranch, start a dairy farm and have as many children as possible and homeschool them.
But you know I am limited by financial situation like most people.
It's the social engineering, tbh. A society more concerned about feelings than about rational thought. Completely against the "nuclear family."
Women too; it’s a symptom of shitty money, the future gets discounted too much.
:( motherhood is so important to me. it’s a blessing
I’m literally so excited for it. I’m also probably a bit older than you though.
:,) adore this.
They simply have a longer time frame to have kids.
I always joke that if I get really desperate I’ll have my Dad take me to the airbase. I just need to walk down a commissary aisle unattended and I’ll be married before I reach the end. I don’t know that I’ve met a man outside of the military who is marriage minded.
Oh wait I forgot the Uber Christian guys. They get married young. Most come from a sect that preaches against sex before marriage.
I'll marry you and have kids. 💍
Because American pop culture teaches men to not have kids and be a degenerate your whole life until you eventually die of an overdose.
However I think many people in their 20’s grew up without one of their parents and I think that trend of having kids and leaving will start dying out with that age group because they know what it’s like and know it’s not good.
We’re probably about the same age, and I could say the same about women.
Because having a kid and not being prepared is much worse than not having a kid at all.
modernity
Have you met women these days?
This ^
convincing a girl to have kids is more difficult now. they all want to be “CEO’s” until reality hits them in their 30s
They have lost their sense of what it is to be a MAN!!
🫂