I would have at least three. all the no sibling people I have ever met where very selfish and inconsiderate. there are lessons to be learned from having siblings. plus once you have one it's only adding one more year to the task to have a second and so on.
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No, I'm not selfish or inconsiderate 🫣
And on the other hand I know a few sibling which have no or less contact to each other.
So the people are very different.
And after one kid I wanna be free again.
Which means I wanna do things on my own again.