It does get ₿etter. Mine are 3 & 6 we are just getting out of “The trenches” with our second.

Sleep deprivation is psychological warfare, and is considered torture. You and your wife are still adjusting to a new list of priorities.

For me, the hardest thing was not parenting like I had growing up. I knew I wanted to be better I had no idea what that meant we are figuring it out though, all 4 of us.