friends of mine getting divorced. they both cheated. from an unmarried person who always wanted to be married I just dont get this.
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I felt that right in the feels. 💯 Get what you're saying
I mean, if they like each other at all but they're both obviously down to get other folks involved, why not just be poly or whatever?
i wish they would because they are both old friends and have kids. unfortunately it was too much for the relationship to handle.
I was married for a long time, regretfully divorced a few years ago. I wish I could explain it to you. It happens gradually.. First you get increasingly comfortable together, then you start to take each other for granted. You start to get lazy. And eventually it just becomes easy to let it go. It's hard to understand what you're losing until it's gone. Years later and it still feels like a huge part of me is missing.
I sympathise for what you are going through. i would imagine that many people experience this.