maximalism is when I want to buy timtams. I just like them so much. you tell me that kroger is the best grocery store, there is no second best, and people who don't shop there are just ignorant. but they don't have timtams at kroger. then you tell me I'm wrong for wanting timtams. this is when I stop believing your claims that kroger is the best grocery store, which confuses and upsets you.