Ok guys I have a moral dilemma. Nothing major, and really a first world problem, but I could use your help.

Backstory: My in-laws have been in town all week. My wife and I have been working all week, and I knew going into it that my week was going to be particularly hectic and a bit gruelling based on a couple of big, tight, contract bid deadlines with lots of estimating across thousands of square miles of countryside. Long days with little free time after work, which has been filled with prepping the garden and seedlings to get everything planted over the next few weeks as we wait for overnight temperatures to be guaranteed to be above freezing.

The culmination of the in-laws’ visit, and the thing I have been looking forward to throughout my shitty work week was to be a glorious steak dinner tonight. I’ve been dreaming all week about sinking my teeth into a perfectly grilled and prepared, marinated slab of Alberta beef, drinks, and good company.

Knowing that my wife and I were going to be busy this week, and wanting to treat us, my in-laws offered to pick up the steaks yesterday and drop them off so I could marinate and pre-season them to throw on the Traeger tonight.

My father in law is no slouch, and knowing from past experience that treating us on these rare visits is usually a spare-no-expense type proposition, I was confident enough that he and my mother in law would deliver my vision of 4 of the most beautifully marbled twenty-four ouncers, that I agreed to let them pick up the meat and we would get the rest of the fixings.

I arrived home from work last night to find out that my father in law had gone golfing, so he was absent when the girls went to the grocery and the butcher.

What greeted me when I got home are no doubt some of the puniest, leanest bargain basement sirloins that were in the store that day. The whole lot was the same price as what one single primo steak should have cost.

Don’t get me wrong, I really appreciate the gesture, and the fact that I get to eat steak at all. We are very blessed and we eat well every day on a primarily protein diet. I am sure I can work with these steaks to make them the best they can be.

Here is my question. Do I:

a) honor the gift by making these steaks the best they can be and forego the dream of a real treat that has sustained me through this shitty week,

b) pretend to drop the tray of steaks on the ground near the dog when I pull them out to marinate them this morning, forcing me to go to the butcher myself to buy some worthy replacements (and forever endearing myself to the hound) or,

c) go buy myself the prime slab I’ve been dreaming about all week, add it to the mix, and risk offending my mother in law when she sees it sizzling in it’s marbled glory next to the tiny pieces of shoe leather she bought.

It’s a real dilemma. Thanks for your assistance in this time of crisis. Lol.

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Deny yourself. Pick A and let it go.

Then buy the prime and sizzle it next week and send pics to her later if you really want to be petty.

The righteous path is never the easy path lol. My mind says a) but my stomach says b).

a) honor the gift by making these steaks the best they can be and forego the dream of a real treat that has sustained me through this shitty week. 🧡✨

Thanks so much for the zap. ⚡️

Cook them to perfection and as you approach the dinner table start tossing them to the dog and announce: "I would never serve such garbage that's barley fit for a dog." and walk out.

You have to pick your battles, sure, but this can't be ignored.

#smij #zapd

Lol. Will post video.

I’d probably go with A, but I’d also roast the father in law while grilling the shoe leather. “These steaks are gonna be dry as a sand trap and tougher than a 60 foot putt.” Give him a chance for redemption and hopefully some grass fed, dry aged tomahawks next time.

Might depend on the sensitivity of your mother-in-law/the relationships you have with everyone

Perhaps Option C with “I knew I’d be hungrier, want leftovers, need more or was already at the store for something else”

I went for c). I didn’t slave all week and restrict calories while I was driving around all week to deny myself a simple pleasure. Which is worse? To offend without intent, or choose to be offended?

You know the right answer already. It's only a moral dilemma because it is the one you least want to do.

I know what the dog would want