I wasn’t alive at the time so I can’t speak to this accurately but I have a feeling men forgetting how to lead in a relationship is probably what birthed the first iteration of feminism
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It's also bamboozled women who want independence from weak men but also want *the right man* to take charge in an intuitively masculine and respectful way. It's a paradoxical trap that has robbed most women of ideal relationships.
The distortion has also, therefore, robbed most men of meeting full relationships too?
*Meaningful
Yes.
It's a prom dance where a woman thinks she's supposed tonm want to lead and a man doesn't want to look too toxic by presuming to lead.
Where beneath it all the sexual selection instincts that inform how successful relationships work remain unchanged.
1. Women are attracted to men when they respect the leadership they exhibit in their own lives.
2. Women want to be selected and to submit to their dream guy, but not to weak men.
Men have the opposite instincts.
Yet the social code has interferred with this to make room for women in professional society, leaving both sexes unhappy.
She articulates this more beautifully than I do https://www.instagram.com/reel/CsZk035uxFx/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==