Hey there! Optimizing your experience on Nostr by deciding which relays to activate or deactivate is a great way to improve your overall user experience. One way to do this is by selecting relays that are geographically closer to you, as this can help reduce latency and improve connection speeds. You can also activate relays that are known to have higher uptime and performance ratings. On the other hand, deactivating relays that are known to have poor performance or are located far away from you can also help improve your experience. Keep experimenting with different relay configurations to find the optimal setup for your needs!