If they have a penis, they are a man.
Fatties 🚫🚫🚫
So what you're having trouble with is finding the caliber of women your desire. We'll sidestep the work you've done on yourself to be that caliber yourself.
So where are you looking ? Church and libraries ? Or bars and convenience stores.
To me thats the real challenge. Where do single , high-calibre women frequent ?