I personally no longer believe in the concept of “The One” in romantic love cuz think there are potentially several Excellent Love Matches out there for everyone.
When I was a HYPER (Silly)🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹Romantic Young Girl but still a Very Wise & Old Soul, I amusingly told 🇬🇧Neil Gaiman “I think I met my Soul Mate!” several times. 😅
They obvi weren’t so I have never called anyone “My Soul Mate” since those silly days!
Timing is VERY VERY IMPORTANT in True Love❤️❤️: *BOTH* people have to be ready and available in heart and logistically.
If either are married or already in a monogamous romantic relationship, they should simply tell their current Partner, Break Up 💔and THEN, go be with the NEW person.
Do *NOT* cheat and get physical with the new Love til current partner has been told of your decision to leave them!
Be HONEST (and kind)!
Sometimes, the forces that pull 2 people together is beyond logic & reason and they are MEANT TO BE TOGETHER!
I know a (Physically) Beautiful & Amazing Couple who grew old together who met this way. And have 3 talented and attractive sons.
Personally, I can think of at least 5 Men who were good love matches that I would have married years ago if timing and circumstances aligned.
All very physically attractive, very smart, stylish, tall, creative, interesting, NICE, GOOD people of Integrity+Quality+Honesty!
1) Almost Husby who studied at 2 different Ivy League universities, plays 🎹, several mutual friends/people (who was at my EXCLUSIVE 🎨 event)
2) Kind person who did a favor for me in 🇫🇷Paris, but we were given bad advice by a 🇫🇷French Hotel Clerk (was invited to my 🎨 event)
3) Another invited person at my EXCLUSIVE 🎨 event
4) Another invited person at my EXCLUSIVE 🎨 event
5) Another invited person at my EXCLUSIVE 🎨 event
And I was NOT on the search for any of them!
Love happens NATURALLY!
If you’re DESPERATELY searching for it, thinking another person can complete you into a Whole person and that it’ll somehow magically 🪄 make you into a Happy Fulfilled Person, sorry but that’s *NOT* how True Love goes!
YOU need to learn to become a happy person BY YOURSELF first and be happy with your OWN company!
Another person won’t make you feel less lonely when not comfortable with WHO you are as a person, did a brutally honest self-assessment and have accepted ALL the bits of the things that make you who you are, the positives AND negative qualities.
There is no such thing as a Perfect Person! I’ve had guys tell me “You’re the perfect girl!” but please, it does NOT exist!
(Amal Clooney is the CLOSEST person I can think of as being The Perfect Woman and obvi George Clooney is fully aware of that and NOT stupid enough to do anything to risk losing her! He had vowed to never marrying again before he met Amal and had definitely dated many physically attractive girls & women before Amal, including a 20something 🇫🇷French girl who was WAY TOO YOUNG for him! And one woman who was DESPERATE to become his wife and reveled in the attention!)
SELF ❤️ + SELF Awareness!
Otherwise, susceptible to tolerating abusive and disrespectful behavior from Romantic Partner!