It's the women that are in full control. They vote for more family distruction and plead for free money from papa daddy government while hooking their men up to milking machines. It's not the patriarchy but the Jesuits.
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This is thousands of years old cellular memory... Too many distortions stacked up on top of year other generation over generation... What you are pointing to is the dis-funftion of the last few decades expression of current reality.
Women and Men are both in the relational field in relationship to their children, government and life itself.