One thing I’ve learned and now strongly believe is “bad behavior” coming from a young kid is not his or her own fault (even if the kid seems like an asshole).
It stems always from a problem in the home or parenting, usually a lack of something, whether it’s support, love, guidance, or even basic necessities.
Sometimes I just want to adopt these kids because I feel like they need more. More kindness, more love, more respect, more everything.