understanding that people starving because of the actions of politicians and NGOs does not mean you don't have sympathy for the suffering.

it means that you want to point the blame in the right direction instead of allowing the narrative to assign blame where it isn't due.

she's right. it's because of hamas stealing food and using it to maintain their army of jihadis. this doesn't exonerate israel for their wrongdoing but it enables you to see that whoever is keeping hamas running is guilty of conspiracy.