I know nostr or gossip can not be as fast a centralized network. (and VPN does not help)
What bothers me is the lack of feedback when requesting a full thread or the previous post.
it just goes blank, with a generic "recomputing". then I give up, try another. And the previous one keeps appearing, it is anoying.
I would like to be able to see some kind of queue with feedback:
2 requests are dead - no known relays are supposed to have the data. give up.
5 requests are stalled - the client has access to relevant relays, but they did not answer yet. please wait.
1 request is 50% done... wait a bit more
1 request is almost done...
then I would know when to give up, when to go have a cup of tea, etc.
It appears that it takes more than 20min before I can see full threads or previous posts.