The human race didn't decide to set you on Nostr. You are here by your own volition without risk of universal censorship. Your actions and posts against nostr 'micro celebrities' and demanding people respond to your outbursts are the reason people aren't reciprocating. You can't be banned, but people can individually block people they find overbearing. This sort of platform will cause the majority of people coming from legacy social media to seek audience and approval by joining the culture. People who are themselves and think outside of the nostr herd will find difficulty amassing audience without algorithms. However, if you are 'nice' and provide at least some value to the community they deem worthy of their scrolling, you will slowly be seen.

Nobody is thinking about me or you when they go to sleep. Everyone is thinking about themselves and their own problems. Don't worry so much.