You can set your relays manually. Check those on primal and compare to what amethyst has, add extra what you want (here are even more to explore https://nostr.watch/)
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Thanks 🙏 so much. I have tried to add in different relays but the pink connection icon on Primal does not work for me—is it easier in Amethyst and do you have a link to it please? I will continue to try to resolve this so I can follow you and others ! #askNostr