I was sleeping. Shouldn’t be too hard to fix this, just need to keep a local copy of your contact list .
Discussion
I see you have 3000+ follows. Your contact list is probably too big for most relays to accept. How are we handling this #[3] #[4] #[5] ?
I tried bumping the max event size in strfry but it still doesn’t seem to work, looks like a strfry bug.
That may cause relays to start rejecting his contact list and subscriptions for sure.
I’ve said it before that >2000 follows starts hitting limits of message sizes and other limits.
It’s just super inefficient to send 3000 pubkeys every time.
I don’t have a solution other than to keep your contact list shorter for the time being.
You would also need to bump maxNumTags as well in strfry.conf
nos.lol currently accepts about a thousand. Following thousands of people is power user category and can be done with special software maybe.