Establishment logic: "You can survive if you, and your partner both work two full-time jobs but the truth is you probably can't get a partner because as a male because the expectation is that you're supposed to provide everything but also those two jobs you're supposed to have, you probably can't even get, heck, you're lucky if you even have one job right now, and the only reason you don't have any of that is because you didn't go to college but if you do go to college you'll probably end up without a job too, so lol, you just suck, and it's your fault for not being good enough"