I guess, for the average user, the only option is switching to a different client. And it would be a good service to the users if the developers make this settings/opinions public and transparent.
clients, specially open source clients, SHOULD have opinions.
And if you don't agree with them you fork and write your opinions like nostr:npub1t0nyg64g5vwprva52wlcmt7fkdr07v5dr7s35raq9g0xgc0k4xcsedjgqv did with Amethyst!
That's open source software doing what it's supposed to do!
Discussion
for sure, and I'm sure that'll be coming