The reason this family member was rejected I think was her old age. It looks suspicious if an 80 year old want to trade bitcoin.

My guess is nostr:npub1ex7mdykw786qxvmtuls208uyxmn0hse95rfwsarvfde5yg6wy7jq6qvyt9 simply wants to look clean and prevent any hard questions from law enforcement. But that is just my guess. I can’t think of any other reason for rejecting her 🤔