One thing about Bitcoin lightning nodes (and bitcoin in general) is you need patience. Sure it's exciting to get a new one going as fast as possible, but it costs to transfer money, and the node isn't going anywhere. So instead of spending large Tx fees to try to get it going asap, spend small amounts (3sat right now) and just wait patiently to confirm. It might be ready tomorrow, but that's fine. Same with bitcoin savings and spending itself. Sure you can buy the shiny new thing today, but if you don't need it till later, why bother. Be patient. Low time preference.