Aren't adblockers basically one guy selecting all the settings for everybody?
Also the ads they filter are almost always very obvious ads. I wish they also filtered ugly pictures, cookie banners, people that just repeat slogans and badly written thoughts, but they can't do that. Relays can (well, not exactly like that, but they get us closer by roundabout means), and given that we cannot ever all agree on what should be filtered besides a certain point (some people don't even filter ads) they must be optional and therefore actively chosen by users (with whatever nudge, hints or help you may think of from clients and friends), there's not a single solution.
Maybe that same approach would work for different flavors of adblocking experience too.