Yeah, totally. This is what i've been puzzled over.
I mean, there are valid criticisms and things that need to be worked on in the clients of course but it's analog to the anger people have over Bitcoin.
I am not sure if these Bitcoiners are self aware that they throw our the same arguments that nocoiners and fiat apologists have been saying for years.
My favorites still are:
"Just a fad"
"You need to advertise it on twitter, not gonna make it"
"Everyone isn't using it, it's dead in the water"
Nostr is a Bitcoiner filter test.