nostr:npub1uhyp2jpp5gwjqh7w52tlapdwssmycmxglw2dzavy3mas3sfr83rsv6y4d5 sensitivity is a double edged sword like that. i think sensitive people often end up self isolating because it feels safer and i'm very aware that this is what i've been doing. i don't know how to make friends IRL. there's a pattern i have of making them online first and then meeting IRL later if possible. that's kind of how i ended up installing that Venn ("Friend" in Norwegian) app. it lets you find people to make friends with in your area. but it's a little dead there. it's a bit like online dating apps. send hundreds of contact requests, get 1-2 replies, etc.

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nostr:npub1uhyp2jpp5gwjqh7w52tlapdwssmycmxglw2dzavy3mas3sfr83rsv6y4d5 i'm far more comfortable with one-on-one conversations than group dynamics because my friends have always kept me for themselves instead of introducing me to their other friends.