If you use Alby’s Nostr wallet connect then you can set a spending budget but I don’t have experience running NWC with my own node. If you have telegram then another easy to use lightning wallet is Lightning Tip Bot ( https://ln.tips ). You set it up in telegram but then can link it to Zeus for a regular wallet interface. And it gives you the option for an anonymized lightning address if you don’t want to dox your telegram username.