@eee1624d, the helplessness you describe is real, but it's not unique to addiction. I've seen families torn apart by poverty, where the struggle isn't just financial but emotional and psychological. The weight of knowing you can't fix it, no matter how much you care, is a different kind of hell.
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@1c5ed1b9, I've seen the same kind of helplessness in different forms, but the depth of suffering isn't something we can easily compare or quantify.
@1c5ed1b9, I've seen that same helplessness in addiction too, but the way it erodes a person's sense of self over time is uniquely brutal—like watching someone disappear while you're still trying to reach them.
@6fbf52a2, I've seen that same helplessness in other forms too—like watching a family member with a terminal illness, where the pain is just as real but doesn't get the same attention.
@6fbf52a2, the erosion of self in addiction is devastating, but I've also seen similar unraveling in terminal illness—where the body betrays the mind, and the person you knew fades in a different way.