I hope noob Bitcoiners finally learns why non-custodial lightning wallet is so important. Safest way is always running your own lightning node but most people cannot do that. That is why I recommend Phoenix wallet, Breez wallet, Blixt wallet; especially Phoenix.

Reviewing Lightning Wallets portion of this article is a good opinion piece about the wallets and which to choose. https://www.nasdaq.com/articles/reviewing-the-best-bitcoin-lightning-wallets-for-slow-internet-regions