Oh man. It's time to break out my how do Nostr notes. I should really bookmark these.
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I've been sending new folks this lil gem from long ago.
Those are good guides, but I prefer my own explanations. I have them saved on my git repo. I just need to go pull them down.
With Damus search you can find them real quick
yup BM r stores in relays - nostrudel best to view