why do people who well versed in nostr take issue with people who aren't ?

This is a bad look and is not productive in my opinion.

Then some wonder why more people aren't on nostr.

Its not user friendly to get going and then once you do over half the notes are talking about nostr.

This all needs to change in my opinion for nostr to be on par with X or even Gab, mastadon or that blue cry thing.