That is terrible. Solutions will come, hopefully
I don't have any, though!
Discussion
The design and mentality about relays needs to change.
In the end, admins and users will want something like mastodon
Hmm. Maybe I'll go back to Mastodon. (I didn't really like it, though.)
Nostr has a few benefits over Mastodon, I came here from Fedi too. It's nice to have control over your identity here.
Make sure to add these cool relays
wss://relay.poster.place
wss://relay.mostr.pub <-- bridge to the fediverse