I have been trying for weeks. Will get it figured out one day.
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BTCPay makes it fairly straightforward. Happy to help if you wanna DM
I got a cloudflare tunnel set up to BTCPay (pay.structur3.io) but the lighting address is still a local address. So far no answer on how to fix that in my search and inquiries.
I just sent 21 sats to satstackingpleb@pay.structur3.io from my node.
It's working fine.