Here’s an example of how NAIVE and VERY WHOLESOME I was (still a pretty Wholesome person!):

I went to visit an Electrical Engineer guy friend (who is very SMART, creative, physically attractive, tall, very nice, interesting and a fun person!) in another place and then met another guy who was also attractive, nice & sweet but on the shorter side, like 5’7” or 5’8” or so.

He took me to a party and there were bunch of dried plant 🌿🌱things on the kitchen table.

Internally, I was thinking “WHAT are those and WHY is there so much of it on the table??”

I did not ask anyone about it.

And then it didn’t occur to me until over 10 years later what they probably were! 😅

Don’t recall the (white) guy’s name who took me to the party but that could’ve been a dangerous situation and I had NO IDEA cuz so naive, innocent and VERY WHOLESOME!! 😅

Thankfully, I was fine obvi.

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