Was on a date with a doctor, a cute surgeon with a dog. Asked her in advance if she could do a ”fun” Myers-Briggs test. She’s an INTJ, just like me. Already knew then, this is most probably not going to work out, but went to meet her anyways.
Boy, was I right! INTJs are incredibly in depth in whatever they are interested in. We just happened to be on different sides of politics and especially … the mRNA vaccine. Mentioned how my mom had a heart attack soon after and friends who died from it. She did not believe it could the vaccine. I was grabbed by emotions of anger and disappointment, but stayed as polite as I could. Somewhere I was hoping INTJs would be able to see through all the lies and deceit. So part of the disappointment was in myself. I told her that “sorry, but this is what worried about. We’ll do nothing but fight all the time, two INTJs with very different perspectives.” After a while, I didn’t want to drag it out any longer so I said the words I knew she would reject me for saying:
”I prefer Trump to Harris.”
”Grab her by the pussy?!”
”Well, I hate that he said that too, but I’m comparing their actions as President. For example, he didn’t create more wars ... also, I really like … RFK Jr.”
”The anti-vaxxer?!”
”Yes, I think he’s the best thing that could happen to America right now.”
The date was soon done after that. We hugged each other goodbye.