Good point, Bitcoin and nostr are community lead.

Big tech and cryptos are businesses.

Most people are used to their lives subject to businesses and government, but most people don't like it any more than they like signing up with the selective service.

If you prefer to use public transportation and refuse to own a car, even when its within your means, then walled gardens are for you.

If you prefer freedom, eventually you will learn how to drive a car.