it's not only about redundancy, it's also about reach and decentralization. Two relays is enough for redundancy thinking in most cases, but not enough for decentralization (imo).
People can only read from where notes are written. Ideally most notes are available on more than two relays, to at least minimize a centralized need to be on those relays.
But yes, to many relays also don't make much sense. So I agree :)