Here is the compromise. All taxes are optional. All interactions are voluntary and social in nature. You want to pay for your fire department, you voluntarily pay a discrete tax that is just for the fire department.
You don't want to bomb cave men in Afghanistan that didn't do anything to you, you don't pay terror war tax.
Of course these people create money from nothing, so either way they will mortgage your retirement and your children's future to do it.
But they don't get to break someone's leg, hand them a crutch, and then say they are being ridiculous for not accepting the paradigm.