It's not weird at all. I have observed myself doing it... But I have never worked to develop it. I think when we see it, we can't unsee, and it becomes rather authomatic. Like nostr:npub1vfxsrm6hpgmnptapa0ku8mv464e9ntzlx75lp6kfc2sd9ufzha9qqu0gmq, said yesterday, "between stimulus and response, there is a space", Everything is a choice. Our mind is powerful. That quote "watch your thoughts, they become words...(...) , by Lao Tzu, it represents what you just said, IMHO. Anyone can change how they feel about anything, if they take the time to "understand" why they are feeling it. And all of us can change, like you said, how we "feel" about anything. Feelings are not facts. And sometimes what we feel and associate to someone or something, is just our unconscious bringing up, something from our childhood or even past life's, for integration.