tests happen regardless if you want it or not
some do them subconsciously, some consciously
Discussion
Matching is one thing but to have a first date in a setting to play judge on a potential partner seems quite cynical or maybe my views are too romantic
i think you and i have a different understanding of tests here
I get what you mean, romance is very important but I think protecting your heart is only fair too 🥹 tests are for that too. I’ve been on so many dates where the guy just tries to find an excuse to feel me up. Ngl, hurts my feelings a bit 🥹.
I would love to find someone in London who would just walk and talk with me and wait a lil bit for the other stuff, cos god knows my sex drive is through the roof so it’s not like it’s not gonna happen. I feel like the small stuff like laughing together, that’s more romantic ☺️ plus Ikeas a family place and perfect for that. Might have to steal this date idea 🤔
Quite disappointing to read that.
You'll find someone 🫂. Though am doubtful it will be through dating apps - signal too low.