I missed most of this Roya. Whatever is going on with your health, we are pulling for you. 🫂

Give yourself the rest you need 🙏

i can relate to this sentiment

Pray to God. Use your faith. No curse or black magic can overcome this.

My prayers are with you. ❤️🙏🏼

Prayers for Roya.

Think the other way around, pray for yourself if you think someone put curse on you.

We can’t stop others doing things but we can initiate what we wish for.

I’m very sorry, Roya. I am glad you were not in the car when the accident happened. I hope the driver survived as well. It looks pretty nasty.

I have been seeing your posts and the roller coaster of events. You may not see it now, but this too shall past.

I don’t want to cross the line, but when I face struggles, all I want are practical and realistic perspectives to get myself out of problems. Should you need the same, this might come in handy. Otherwise, feel free to skip it.

1. As long as it's not life and death problems, there are fixes. A friend’s father told me once, what can be solved with money is not really a problem. That helped me value situations differently.

2. Try to find ways to pull yourself out of the negative buildups. Otherwise it will get worse for you emotionally, physically and mentally. My stress diffuser and escapism has been books - on one of my worst year I hit 450 books. Find something that can help you snap out of this. It won’t be easy, but you are strong and you can.

3. There is no miracle or quick fix or saviour to get you out of this mess. And that’s ok. You got this. The sooner you accept that, the sooner you will start focusing on figuring out solutions. Have faith in yourself, in God or any external force you believe if you need that motivation. I recall you mentioning you practice Zoroastrianism. Faith is a powerful element. You will bounce back up.

4. If the car is a total lost, it’s ok. It’s just a car. A great car. But still, just a car. The memories you created with your friends in the car will live in your heart and mind forever. What matters most is that you are alive. There’s Uber, Lfyt these days, and cars in the US are still dirt cheap in comparison. You can and will get another.

5. If you want to look for a diff job, get past “putting it out there to the universe” and take serious actions on it. Do up your resume. Send it out. Start applying. Reach out to all contacts that you know. Just do it. And see where it takes you.

6. You will need time to recover from pneumonia, at least 2-3 months. Working in a job that was harming your lungs and health was not a wise move. Don’t do that.

7. That means tho you will need money to sustain for the next 2-3 months. This is a bearable amount. Either take a loan from your family, friends, bank etc to avoid getting evacuated or you will have to cut back as much cost ie let go of the place and live with family or friends that can help you for the next few months. I know you love your place but I’d encourage to cut back cost and stay away from debts as much as you can. Debt stress and finance stress is a diff level of stress

8. Once you have the 2-3 months to recover health wise, focus on getting hired the next 2-3 months. Try to attend as many interviews that will gain you exposure and experience. Fine tune your interview-ability each round and keep getting better.

9. And once you lock down a job you align with, repay what you owe and rebuild back your life. Find a better place, a better car.

10. No matter how hard you fall, you can pick up. This journey is going to remind you of how strong you are. There's a Japanese proverb “Nana korobi ya oki” which translates to 'Fall down seven times, get up eight'.

I know this might seem point blank but I’m very certain, if you have a wider perspective, you will have better opportunities to make great decisions.

Every difficulty will force you to find new ways you never knew existed, strength you never knew you had and new skills you adapt.

You will come out of this, and you will be better for it.

You got this. 🫂

Don't let them get to you