You have your goddamn answers. That's not the problem. The problem is that you want to shove a narrative down my throat in which I deliberately took malicious steps, and this wasn't the case. As I have tried to explain repeatedly. And you look for a decision to blame on me, when initiative came from the other party. And you try to blame me for a "planned/coordinated action" when I had no prior knowledge.
It's simple: you can't blame me for another person's actions.