Being able to hold her weight while in a squat helps. What was the question?
My biggest success has been wifey scoring a moissonette ring for well under100 that helps with protection. We have six kids and it's important our children see what a loving relationship looks like. She had lost her wedding band years ago and never really liked the hand me down engagement so this has been nice. Plus she is coming out of the baby years and hitting peak MILF stage and I'm doing what middle aged dudes do who don't get divorced and leveling up.