My bitcoin wallet suggestions. I had a friend ask so I'm sharing for everyone.

Sparrow for desktop. Use Sparrow and coinjoin your coins with a troubled past with Samourai's Whirlpool service. Sparrow is also very good and integrating signing devices (ColdCard, Trezor, Seedsigner) for great security from online hackers.

Samourai for Android. Samourai has a lot of interesting privacy features but make sure to use a self hosted (or friend hosted) Dojo if you want to keep your address lookups from being sent to the Samourai company.

JoinMarket for a linux desktop or server. JoinMarket makes it possible to CoinJoin for free if you run a maker most of the time! Use Jam for a graphical front end to JoinMarket, otherwise you'll be working on the command line. I have never used Jam but it looks cool and useful for visualizing what is happening on JoinMarket.

Zues and LND for lightning on Linux server with an Android GUI. Zeus can be linked up to your own LND node and makes using Lightning in a self sovereign way easy. Zues can also be linked Alby for convince but Alby is a custodian.

Blixt for Lightning node on your Android device. I haven't used Blixt much but it does allow for creating channels from your phone which is really cool. Blixt has a feature where you send in coins and the wallet creates a channel automatically. Blixt has a lot of features for Lightning users. If you use Blixt, let me know how you like it.